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15 August 2008 at 1:32pm
What are your views on mental illness? Do you or someone you know suffer from mental illness? What about the stigma attached to mental illness?
Tell me your experiences and views, or come here for support and fellowship

17 August 2008 at 9:56am
Good idea! I think mental illness is something that is so often overlooked and still has such a weird stigma attached... like just because you can't necessarily see it (unless it's something obvious, like the more severe disabling types) it makes it not real and not worth looking at. And especially amongst teenagers; the whole stereotype of 'oh teenagers get a bit moody and get a bit silly' kinda means people are less likely to pay attention to signs that something genuinely isn't how it should be, whether that be in terms of depression or something totally different.
It encompasses such a huge range of problems; it's strange how little you hear about it and how people won't discuss things.

25 August 2008 at 1:41pm
Agreed.
However its harder on the otherside. Being diagnosed and everyone knowing...
Its complicated.
I nearly lost my life to depression. Its been just over a year since i got out of hospital. I was a severe case in suicide and i shiver at how low i was back then.
Literally being sent away saved my life.
Anyway...
The hardest part - like the adds on TV - is dicrimination. The world trying to understand you. You trying to understand the world. I suppose im talking in experience in Depression, Bipolar, anorexia and bulimia.
Sometimes i can think that no matter how this world matures, the true understanding of depression ect is untouchable. Its a complex topic, and the only people that will ever understand the true hardship is that of someone who has experienced that. Its just fact.
I am ridiculed today for scars i have, from my self harming days. Even denied a few jobs. People can be quite hurtfull. When someone mentions the term depression, its ignored like noone really wants to even try and understand it.
Through my experiences and struggling with my illness i think that is the hardest part. Getting everyone out there aware and understanding that you are stuck wherever you are and its not as simple as 'getting over it'.
I would give anything in the world to have that understanding undestood.
ANd i know that didnt make any sense lol
xxx

29 August 2008 at 8:36pm Last edited: 29 August 2008 8:51pm
Are you the same Christina that has been in Rangatahi and knows Amy Roche and possibly Kauki Tawhara? I've been there a couple of times as well
I'm in hospital at the moment after one of many suicide attempts last week, and my clinical depression/past eating disorder has spanned seven years now, so I'm highly experienced in these things.
I've also suffered at the hands of the massive stigma that society attaches to mental health. My local library refused to take me as a volunteer because of my mental illness, and I've had members of the public that I don't even know come up to me and tell me that my scars are hideous. People say that mental illness is a disease the same as diabetes or whatever, but it seems to be a whole lot more acceptable to have diabetes than schizophrenia.
Anyway, I'm here to talk to anyone that wants to

30 August 2008 at 8:38am
Wow.
What an extremely small world :]:]
I know exactly how that feels, you know i just thought it could be 'fixed' - so many people think that. Its hard. Real hard. SO hard.
Some people can be so damn cruel. Ive been denied jobs for scars i have, and yeah, random people just love ruining your day.
Sometimes i wish i could just go back to how i was before. Like before people knew about me and my illness. About what i did to myself. ABout everything. Even ild love to forget it all. Just be that one feeling barely holding onto life.
Im struggling at the moment with my eating/weight. I have been rather down in suicidal thoughts too. But i dont know where i am anymore, am i going backwards? Setback or slow plunge downwards?
Its enough to make you scream all night.
EEEEEERRRRRRRRRGGHHHHHHHH!

1 September 2008 at 3:25pm
Having read your posts I think you have really touched on some of the most difficult things about mental illness, mainly the discrimination and how hard it can be even to understand things for yourself, let alone getting other people to understand. But , I think it is a bit like that ad with John Kirwan where he says to keep going until you do get someone who understands – they are out there. And slowly we will change the way people think about mental illness. Mental health awareness week is coming up from 6-12 October so this is a good opportunity to educate people.
It seems as though both of you are going through a really hard time at the moment and feeling pretty lost. I imagine you’ve been through a lot to feel that way.
A really cool thing that someone said to me once is the analogy of climbing a mountain. Paths up mountains tend to go in a circle around the mountain and often you feel like you keep coming back to the same place, but each time you are actually climbing higher and higher, even though it feels the same. I often think that this is what it’s like dealing with depression and mental illness, that often the view can be the same but you are actually moving forward each time.
Great that you are using the Tearaway forum to get support and talk through stuff, it’s important not to feel alone with what you’re going through and to make sure you have some support systems in place. You guys show a lot of courage to have come so far and to be sharing your stories with other people.
Just remember that there are people out there. Youthline is available 24/7 on the phone or you can text free on 234 from 8am to midnight for support.
The like minds like mine website www.likeminds.org.nz is also quite useful and has some good links as well as the mental health foundation. www.mentalhealth.org.nz

6 September 2008 at 12:25pm
John Kirwin is inspiration.
I actually find those adds helpful. I remember the first time i saw one. It touched me, it touched in a way that you know - someone is out there trying to get through to people. He has the power, and hes using it damn well.
Thankyou for taking the time to even acknowledge these posts :]
I found that if you keep looking, keep searching you find those rare people who will hold your hand and tell you they understand. Even when they dont. They are rare, they are hard to find. But when you do find them, theyre worth a million more.
All my advice is, is to ride these waves. No matter how big they get. Whatever is waiting on the otherside, is damn worth waiting for. You may feel down, depressed, blue - but letting yourself dwell in that darkness will only steer you down circled paths. If you think life is meant to be so wonderful - it isnt. Dont beat yourself up for feeling alone. Whos a person who hasnt been to hell and back??
If you think your life is damn perfect and wonderful, you havnt even lived it yet.
xxx

10 September 2008 at 7:30pm
i was diagnosed with depression just over 6 months ago i have had 3 attempt of suicde and ended up in hospital for a week after one of them now my phyciatrist thinks i have borderline personality disorder i am to scared to admit to ant of the simptons because im scared of what might happen
should i be scared or am i just worried about nothing sum1 please help me i dont know what to do
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